Penis Size Does Matter!
It matter's to one person
: YOU!
If you believe that you have a
small penis, it may matter very much to you, however unimportant or
important the issue might
seem to other men, women, doctors, experts etc.
Surveys and studies can say
what they want about what men and women prefer but if you are unhappy about your
penis size, then penis size does matter. This is nicely illustrated by a young
university student's view on the size of his penis :
"It's
not the fact that I am ugly and repulsive- well I don't think I am, at least
I've never been told I am. The fact is that I lack serious confidence, now
that I have been told before. I lacked faith in myself and in my ability
to perform. I am 5'10" tall - which isn't extremely tall or small, just
average. But I was never satisfied with my penis size. However I
looked at it, I just simply wasn't satisfied with it- I would go as far as to
say I was really embarrassed."
Telling
men that penis size does not matter, is like telling a champion body builder
that he need not get bigger biceps. The fact that he is already the
champion, that most women do not find the body building type attractive and that
"average is good", has nothing to do with the desire to gain bigger
biceps.
It boils
down to a self perception and self confidence issue. If you feel
overweight, no reassurance from your partner will convince you otherwise.
It is based on your "feelings" which in turn is based upon self
perception and self acceptance.
True
that for most woman penis size does not matter because most woman can only
accommodate the average penis size anyway. The fact
is women vary in size, too. Some have longer vaginas, some shorter.
So if you pride yourself on your exceptional length, but the women in your life
is shorter than average, you might be missing the spot.
We
appreciate the fact that women want to save our fragile male ego's because in
their eyes penis size REALLY does not matter that much (their preferences are usually a blend of taste,
aesthetics, habit, comfort, pressure and pleasure) but for some men it is
important to have a larger penis and it does matter.
Just
as you would keep reassuring your better halve that she is "not fat"
and that her big hips REALLY do not matter, no amount of "convincing"
from your part can make her think otherwise because "losing weight" is
important to her and the way she perceives herself.
What is important to note here is
that most men will have a penis that falls within the suggested normal size
range, but that does not always make them feel normal or better about
themselves. Both they, and their doctor, should recognize that this is primarily
a psychological problem, connected to physical and sexual self-image, rather
than a physical handicap.
At the end of the day, this is why I get upset by people
who try and dismiss the notion that penis size does not matter, it does matter;
it
matter's to you!
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